No one really enjoys filling out dating profiles. We don’t like having to sit there putting ourselves on display and trying to find the right words to convince women to date us. However, since we have a better opportunity of reaching more women at one time, many of us rely on dating profiles. There are hundreds of different types of dating websites out there. Some of the things that apply to one dating website don’t apply to others. However, when you want to meet as many women as possible, we can promise you that no matter what dating website you use, there are five common things that you need to include in your dating profile to grab a woman’s attention.
Put Your Best Face Forward
“This kind of profile picture would attract women to your profile”
Every profile needs a photo. It doesn’t matter if you are on a dating profile because you want to settle down and get married or if you are on that one dating website that you found in the kinky 101 guide. If you do not have at least one photo on your dating profile, there is an extremely high chance that no woman is going to bother even attempting to message you. If your goal is to make your sex life more interesting, you’re going to have to upload your photos. If you’re using a traditional dating website, a typical photo of you will suffice. If you’re using more of a kinky website and don’t want to include you face shots, you don’t have to, but we still recommend it.
You also want to make sure that the photo you post is actually of you and your current self. We shouldn’t have to tell you this, but there are way too many men who post photos of themselves ten years ago, or when they were one hundred pounds lighter. We know you want to lure sexy ladies in, but you have to go about it the right away. If you post a photo of your younger self and then meet up with a woman who is expecting you to look a certain way, it can and more than likely will, lead to disaster.
What Do You Like to Watch?
Two other great things to include in your profile is your taste in movies and television. These are especially great when you are filling out your profiles that you found using an online kinky 101 guide. Posting you favorite adult television shows and movies gives you the perfect opportunity to show women what type of things you are into. For example, you can mention how HBO’s Real Sex is one of your favorite specials, or you can write about the best bondage documentaries you’ve ever seen.
Let women know that your kinkiness goes further than just fooling around in the bedroom. Show them that you are always learning ways to hone your craft, which will lead to impressing her. You want to make your sex life more interesting anyway, so try watching as many kink related shows, series, movies, and documentaries as you can. This will make your list of interests for movies and television more in-depth and a lot more impressive.
When you are posting on traditional dating websites, showing what type of movies and television shows you like will still tell women what type of things interest you. For instance, if your favorite television show happens to be a show about cats that airs on the animal channel, mention it. Also, it wouldn’t hurt if you liked cats. Women love cats.
If possible, you should have a list of varying television shows and movies that interest you. If everything you watch is limited to one genre, women may think that if they do not like that genre then the two of you won’t hit it off. It is a possibility that this is true, but you shouldn’t give her a reason to think that before she goes on a date with you. Also, when you list many different shows and movies, you have a better chance of her having watched some as well.
Reading Is Fundamental
You also want to include in your profile what books you enjoy. If you don’t read books, now is the time to start. Even if you are only dealing with kinky websites, list a few books from a kinky 101 guide that you found online. Don’t ever tell a woman that you don’t read or that you hate reading. We’ve found that saying so is an immediate turn off for them. Learn some tips to spice up your sex life at guidekinky.com/spice-up-your-sex-life/kinks-defined/. The information on this site can help you impress a woman.
If you happen to love children’s books, we suggest you limit how many you list unless you’re a librarian or something like that. Women seem to find it weird when some of us admit to them that we enjoy kids’ books, so we typically decide not to mention them. The same thing goes for poetry, which we find pretty strange. If you mention one or two poetry books, it’s fine. However, if you’re entire list of favorite books is poetry books, women tend to think that we are too deep or too emotional. Again, limit these types of books. You don’t want to decrease your opportunity of dating as many women as possible, so do not send some of them running before they even get the chance to speak with you.
Something You Can Dance To
“Don’t forget to mention your choice in music”
Finally, after photos, movies, television, and books, the last thing you need to include on in your profile is music. There is just something about music that makes you feel like you will enjoy being around a person’s company, especially if they like the same music as you. You can tell a women a lot about you by the type of music that you listen to. If you like a variety of music; list as many different songs or genres that you enjoy. Many times, when you like a lot of different music, it makes women think that you’re open to dating different type of women. This encourages them to send you a message. If you only have one type of genre that you’re interested in, specify that. You may limit the amount of women that contact you, but chances are, you’ll find someone who has the same exact taste in music as you and that’s always good.
Of course, you can always include whatever you want in your profile. After all, it’s your profile. We just want you to have the opportunity of hooking up with as many women as possible. These five things have shown to be what women seem to be interested in when they decide to message someone. If your profile is lacking one or more of these things, it could make it difficult for you to interact with women who you may share lots of stuff in common with.
Keep in mind that you may have to change things up a bit depending on what dating website you are using. You do not want to list all of your kinky stuff on your traditional dating site to save time on having to re-write dating profiles. The same goes for using the stuff for your traditional profile on your kinky dating websites. While you may still have a decent chance of connecting with people, it’s not going to be as many as it would be if you took the time to customize each profile.